It is hard to differentiate between the two intentions if you had not allowed yourself to be open and vulnerable with your flaws. To know when I was using my favourite habits as self-care versus as an unhealthy avoidance, I had to upgrade my
I cannot constantly excuse others or give them the benefit of the doubt to keep up appearances of me being polite or to 'jaga perasaan' - not when my value, my self-worth and my credibility has to be reduced to enable it.
A month ago, my partner Kula asked me to reflect. "How much of the work that you currently work on, actually serves your own interest and goals? Don't you think the time you put into all this work should be prioritized towards your own project, instead of someone
Tbh, in the past two years, I have spent more than a couple thousand Ringgit to upskill myself in photography and social media skills. I have bought and watched so many courses, spent money on equipment and set up several mood boards + social media plans. And yet, despite all of this, one look at
Suffice to say, this has been a rather heavy week of discourse, nationally and internationally. A quick scroll on my Twitter would reveal conversation after conversation on the ongoing BLM movement in America, the ethics behind rioting, coronavirus updates, the discrimination towards dark-skinned
During Mother’s Day over the weekend, I thought back about the last time I was visited by my late mother. By then it had been roughly a year since my mom had passed due to health complications. We did not have a good relationship so it was honestly scary when she appeared in my dream